The Mezzetti Law Firm has successfully represented victims of child sex abuse in cases against individual perpetrators and the entities who employ them without providing adequate protection and supervision. The total amount of jury verdicts and settlements obtained on behalf of more than 30 such victims exceeds $34,000,000 to date. Having represented plaintiffs in the statewide proceedings known collectively as "Clergy I", "Clergy II", and "Clergy III" against various Roman Catholic churches and organizations, we are familiar with the wide-ranging nature of conduct by priests, pastors and bishops at St. Martin of Tours, St. Patrick Proto-Cathedral Parish, Five Wounds Portuguese National Parish, the Archdiocese of San Francisco, the Diocese of San Jose, the Diocese of Monterey, the Diocese of Marin, Mount St. Joseph Carmelite Monastery, the California Province of the Society of Jesus ("Jesuits"), the Sacred Heart Novitiate Jesuit Center, the First Pentecostal Church of San Jose, the Saratoga Stake of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints ("Mormons"), the Presbyterian Church of Los Gatos, the Diocese of San Diego, and the Seattle Archdiocese. We have also brought claims for sexual misconduct against biological fathers and grandfathers, potential employers, psychiatrists, counselors and Kaiser Permanente medical personnel.
In our experience, perpetrators of child sex abuse expend significant amount of time and effort identifying and befriending future victims before attempting any physical sexual act. Boys and girls with low self esteem are frequent targets. Perpetrators are likely to enjoy a position of power and authority over the victim, as has happened in churches, hospitals, schools, and private homes.
Through a process called "grooming", a perpetrator earns the trust and respect of a potential victim and his or her family. By helping a child with homework, athletic activities, and socialization, the perpetrator is able to learn the child's particular weaknesses. Longer-term grooming activities may emphasize the child's height and weight, or may feature a system of points or treats as rewards for following the perpetrator's rules.
Over time, the child begins to confide in the perpetrator. The perpetrator may address the child's concerns about puberty, adolescence and sex. Magazines, video, alcohol and drugs may be used to increase a child's interest in sex. Ultimately, when physical sexual abuse begins, the minor is too afraid of disappointing his or her confidante (the perpetrator) to report the sexual misconduct. Often, victims mistakenly believe that they are "the only one" and are afraid that no one will believe them if they report the abuse.
Many child victims continue to express love and respect for their perpetrators well into adulthood, even as they struggle with significant psychological injuries. In some cases, the victim does not connect the childhood abuse with the psychological harm until the victim has children of his or her own. In other cases, the memory of the abuse is repressed for years. If you are struggling with these issues, contact an attorney as soon as possible.
Contact child protective services or law enforcement in your area if you know of or suspect child abuse.